When a call is alerting at an idle phone, by default Ringing Line Preference sets the call as the currently selected button and if the user then goes off-hook they will answer that call.
In most situations this is acceptable as the user hears ringing which informs them that there is a call waiting to be answered. If the user wants to make a call instead, they can press another call appearance button to go off-hook on that other button.
When ring delay is being used there can potentially be a problem if the user lifts the handset to make a call without looking at the display. If they do this while the a call is alerting silently on a button with ring delay, the user will actually answer the waiting call rather than get dial tone to make a call.
Once the call alerting on a button has currently selected call status, it retains that status even if a prior call on a button with ring delay applied comes out of its ring delay period.